How to build your self-worth and self-esteem

How to build your self-worth and self-esteem

Building your self-worth and self-esteem requires a combination of self-reflection, self-compassion, and taking positive action. A lot of people struggle with their self-esteem. Here are some steps you can take to start building your self-worth and self-esteem:

How to build your self-worth and self-esteem


Start by becoming more aware

A lot of people live life on the go, without taking time to reflect on their thoughts and actions on the day to day basis. Self-awareness is so important, as it helps you sieve through each thought and action so as to know the areas of your life that needs improvements. Become more aware of your thoughts and beliefs about yourself. Are they mostly negative or positive? Do they reflect your true worth and potential, or are they based on skewed perceptions and past experiences?


Practice self-compassion

One very important thing to do when building self-esteem is to be kind to yourself with the believe that you are worth it. Reward yourself for milestones that you hit and tasks that you accomplish. By treating yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer to a good friend. This means acknowledging your flaws and mistakes, but also recognizing your strengths and accomplishments.


Develop positive mindset

When it comes to building your self-worth and self-esteem your mindset is such a huge part of the process, the way you see yourself, and the way you see the world around you has a large role to play.  So, you must be very intentional about the kind of information you take in. Challenge negative thoughts and beliefs about yourself by asking yourself if they are true and supported by evidence. If not, reframe them in a more positive and realistic light.


Take action 

At the end of the day, remember you must take action. It starts with taking small steps in the right direction. Take positive action by setting goals for yourself and taking steps to achieve them. This could be anything from learning a new skill to volunteering for a cause you care about. By taking action and moving towards your goals, you can build your confidence andself-esteem.


Surround yourself with supportive people

Surround yourself with supportive people who believe in you and your potential. These people can provide encouragement and motivation when you need it most. When you have the right people within your circle you will be more motivated and inspired to take life by the whiskers. These kind of people help you see the best in yourself, they don’t talk you down or make you feel small or insignificant. Rather they serve as support systems every step of the way



Finally, remember that building your self-worth and self-esteem is a journey and not a destination. It takes time and effort, but with persistence and self-care, you can develop a healthy and positive sense of self-worth and self-esteem. Don’t be so hard on yourself as you go and grow through the process, you might rise and fall a couple of times, but just stay focused and keep moving forward.


Have you ever struggled with your self-worth and self-esteem, kindly share your thoughts in the comment section.

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