A few days ago about i was caught up in a conversation which inspired this post. It was a little chit-chat with a friend about my development goals for February. While we were talking, he paused and thought for a while then he asked, “Why are you so passionate about personal development”?   For a few minutes I looked at him in disbelief, then I started by reciting my favourite personal development quote, and then I went further to explain what personal development means.   A lot of people are like my friend, the topic of personal development and self-improvement still sounds like gibberish Again, I don’t judge because that…

Do you have inner dialogues with yourself? If you do, I hope you’ve been saying things that help blow off the steam!     To keep yourself motivated, you must learn to talk to yourself positively all the time,This habit can be learned through practice and repetition.   Your words are powerful, they can influence your thoughts and emotions, and your thought pattern goes a long way in determining the trajectory of your life.    This is why you need to develop the habit of using positive affirmations. At first, it might feel awkward, but as you keep at it you will soon begin to see those words manifest in your…

Running late on your schedule yet again? For umpteenth time you have written out your to-do list and somehow have failed to follow through. What’s really wrong with me? “Why on earth is this thing so hard”? You ask! Time and again you find yourself procrastinating, and even procrastinating on your procrastination….that is postponing your schedules that have already been postponed beforehand. somehow success just seems so evasive! Finding the motivation to smash your goals and tick off tasks from your to-do list is simple in theory, but Not quite a piece of cake in practice. Staying motivated, doesn’t come easy, getting rid of laziness and procrastination is not a…

I’m happy to announce that I have finally read The Richest Man in Babylon.      Whew!! After letting it gather dust in my library….my virtual library.      I finally got the balls to get to work.     I got the Richest man in Babylon pdf version from a friend a few weeks back and I’m glad I did.     It’s safe to say that those who rated it as one of the best books on financial management, did not exaggerate. It teaches some basic principles that everyone needs to learn and apply.    The author George Clason did a great job, he employed the use of storytelling…

Living comes with a lot of responsibilities. There is so much pressure to be this and that, a lot of people to cater to, and tons of responsibilities to meet up with. All these things add up to make life complicated, build up anxiety, and deplete your productivity.    We live in a very complex world where demands and expectations are high, from work demands to family responsibilities, the hustle never seems to end! As a result, a lot of women go through life feeling drained and washed-out because every day feels like a grind.   This is why you must reclaim your life and your mental health by simplifying…

“I want to be on the cover of Forbes magazine, Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen” Raise your hand if this song resonates with you, I’m raising my hands and my legs because this song encapsulates my entire life goals!   I want to become a phenomenal woman, one who would live a mark on the sands of time, and I’m quite certain that this is on your bucket list too!   But here’s the catch! The boss-lady life doesn’t come on a platter. In order to attain success in business, career and even in relationship, something has to give! The good news is; although there’s work to be…

Watching my favorite series on Netflix is easy and surfing the Internet is a breeze, if given the chance I would do these things every day for the rest of my life. unfortunately, these habits don’t help me in any way. They are fun activities, however they don’t add any value to my life, and certainly won’t make any of my dreams come true.   A lot of the things we want in life require a lot of work and that’s why we tend to put them off until much later. Reading isn’t necessarily fun, neither is learning a new skill but these things are super important if we want…