Mental health

What to do when a loved one dies 

It’s always difficult when a loved one passes. Among the grief, there’s a lot that needs taking care of. This guide will tell you exactly what to do when a loved one dies. 

 

Get a legal pronouncement of death

 

If the death was sudden and unexpected, it is recommended that you get a cause of death from a doctor. This concludes with a legal pronouncement of death – giving clarity on whether or not this was an accident or if foul play was involved. If there were no suspicious circumstances surrounding the death, you will need to employ a coroner’s office to make a determination.

 

Inform next of kin

 

The first thing you need to do is inform those that need to know about the death. This includes children and other relatives, as well as anyone who could handle any financial or legal matters that may need attending to. It’s also important not to forget the loved one’s close friends. This is a very sensitive time, so make sure you personally contact them to ensure that the message gets across properly.

 

Make funeral arrangements

 

After the loved one has been taken care of and their affairs have been managed by a lawyer or any other person involved, your next step is arranging a funeral. The best thing to do is get in touch with a funeral home, that can handle everything for you. But make sure that the loved one’s wishes are taken into consideration when you choose or arrange anything.

 

Register the death

 

If it’s possible – try to have an open casket at the viewing of your loved one’s death. It’s a good opportunity to say goodbye, and it provides closure for you, other relatives, and friends. The death also needs registering – so try to pay attention to the family if they want this done before the funeral.

 

Arrange a memorial service

 

Having a memorial service is always an important step in coping with loss. It provides a time for loved ones to mourn together and celebrate the life of the deceased. You can keep it simple or you can go all out – depending on your loved one’s wishes, as well as what you feel comfortable with.

 

Take the will to probate

 

Asking yourself – why choose a probate attorney? The answer is simple. It ensures that everyone gets what is rightfully theirs, which includes life insurance money and any other assets. If your loved one signed a will before he or she died, make sure to take it to probate court in order for it to be recognized.

 

Handle their admin

 

If you’re willing to take on the responsibility, one of your tasks is to handle their admin. This includes their bank accounts, credit cards, and any other means of financial access that they might have had. If it’s necessary to close an account or transfer money, make sure that you do this in a timely manner. This will also help you and your loved ones avoid any trouble with the law.

 

Remember the person who has passed on

 

As difficult as it is, now is a good time to reflect on what your loved one meant to you and those close to them. Everything that happened in their lives and everything they accomplished – as well as how they impacted your life.

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